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A new me
Redefining who I am and getting to know the new "me" has to be one of my biggest challenges as I continue to grieve. Our world was shaken...
emmalindner6
Apr 27, 20242 min read
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Use of symbolism
There is obviously not a day that goes by where Thomas is not present in our family, but there are certain things that help me to feel...
emmalindner6
Apr 20, 20242 min read
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Harrowing memories
Whilst most of our memories of our time with Thomas are good ones, there are of course quite a lot that I wish I didn't have. Having said...
emmalindner6
Apr 19, 20242 min read
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Planning for the future
Jason and I have always discussed and planned our longer term goals and focus in life. We have shared our hopes and dreams and how we...
emmalindner6
Apr 18, 20242 min read
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Dealing with life and stress
My lifestyle is now a far cry from what it was pre-Thomas. I would always be keen to get involved in things and more than happy to help...
emmalindner6
Apr 17, 20242 min read
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News and current affairs
As a result of the emotional changes that I have been through that I described in the previous two days, I now find it very difficult to...
emmalindner6
Apr 16, 20241 min read
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Other people's problems
I have often found myself torn between wanting to be a good friend by helping others with their problems or feelings, and overloading...
emmalindner6
Apr 15, 20241 min read
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Separation from my family
I previously wrote about my separation anxiety from my children, and in particular when Lucy started school. This is still very much the...
emmalindner6
Apr 14, 20242 min read
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A changing me
I had been struggling to rediscover my identity. More recently, three and a half years after Thomas died, I have started to be able to...
emmalindner6
Apr 13, 20241 min read
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Rediscovering my identity
This continues to be one of my biggest challenges as I continue to grieve. As I grew up from childhood to adulthood I really analysed who...
emmalindner6
Apr 3, 20242 min read
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